![]() ![]() You don’t know what they might be picking up from that other person in the affair. If your spouse is involved with someone else, then understand that there may be potential health problems if you have sex with them. There are still other things to consider. I’m okay with the fact that you’re getting drunk every Friday night.” So you need to think, “Okay, am I giving the wrong message?” Like, “I’m okay with the fact that you’re having an affair. If your spouse thinks that they can do whatever they want and that you’re still going to climb into bed with them, it could be giving the wrong message. In other words, worrying about venereal disease or things like that is essential. ![]() But, it would help if you offered some degree of safety. And if you want to do that for you, then why not? If your spouse is not having sex with somebody else, if neither one of you is having sex with anybody else, then fulfill your sexual needs with each other. That’s a pro.Īnother pro is your own fulfillment. So, bonding takes place if you’re having sex with each other. And it goes into you in two different ways: one into the autonomic nervous system and the other into your bloodstream as a hormone. But, other than the amount generated to start labor, the most significant amount of oxytocin arrives at orgasm. The fact that you cuddle or hug each other produces oxytocin. Just being close to each other produces some oxytocin. So oxytocin is bonding, which will instantly bond you to that new child you’ve just brought into existence. And if the father is in the room for the baby’s birth, he will also have a burst of oxytocin. A strong bonding chemical starts the childbirth process, putting you into labor. It’s the chemical that instigates childbirth in a female. And just the fact that you’re near each other can produce some oxytocin. If you’re having sex with each other, it’s creating a level of intimacy. If you’re in the same bed, it’s creating some level of intimacy. What are the pros if you want to sleep in the same bed or have sex with your spouse after they cheated? And what are the cons? But let me give you some of the highlights. I’ve even discussed this topic in more detail here. That’s what we’ll navigate in this article. It’s also important to realize that maybe you shouldn’t deny yourself some desires, especially if your spouse is still your spouse. It is essential that a person never feels that they’ve been coerced or forced into having sex with someone else. Anything involving sex in your marriage should ALWAYS be your decision. Any time we talk about deciding to sleep with your spouse or not sleep with your spouse, any sexual encounter should always be your decision. There is one thing in all of this that is so important to remember. What do you think? Should I have sex with my spouse after they cheated on me?” So let’s talk about that in this episode of Relationship Radio. But more often, that sentence means, “My spouse wants to have sex with me. Maybe they want to be in the same bed as you. One of the most common statements I’ve heard over the years is, “Well, we’re having marital problems, but my spouse still wants to sleep with me.” Now, sometimes that just means sleep. ![]()
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